As You Get Older, Wearing What Suits You Matters More Than Following Trends

In our teens and twenties, most of us wear what we like.

We buy the clothes we see on social media, the outfits our favorite celebrities wear, or the latest fashion trends. At that stage of life, the most important question is usually, “Do I like it?”

I was the same way.

I didn’t spend much time thinking about what actually suited me. I didn’t know which silhouettes flattered my body, which colors made my complexion look brighter, or which styles matched my natural image.

If something was trendy and I thought it looked pretty, that was enough.

But as I entered my thirties, my perspective began to change.

Instead of asking, “Do I like this?” I started asking, “Does this suit me?”

Everyone has a different height, body shape, skin tone, and overall presence.

That’s why the same outfit can look amazing on one person but feel completely out of place on someone else.

I believe personal style begins with understanding yourself, not simply following fashion trends.

When you discover the silhouettes that flatter your body, the colors that make you look more vibrant, and the fabrics and overall style that complement your personality, shopping becomes much easier.

This doesn’t mean you should ignore trends.

Fashion is constantly evolving, and it’s fun to enjoy new styles. Staying current can add freshness to your wardrobe.

But if every piece you wear is chosen only because it’s trendy, it’s easy to lose your own identity.

That’s why I like to follow what I call the 70/30 rule.

About 70% of your wardrobe should be made up of pieces that truly suit you—your best colors, your most flattering fits, and timeless basics that make you feel confident.

The remaining 30% can be reserved for trendier pieces that keep your style feeling current and fun.

Maybe it’s a fashionable handbag, a seasonal color, or a pair of statement shoes. Small updates are often enough to make an outfit feel modern without completely changing who you are.

As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized that great style isn’t about owning more clothes.

It’s about knowing yourself better.

The people with the best style aren’t necessarily the ones who follow every trend. They’re the ones who understand what works for them and wear it with confidence.

Trends come and go every season.

But discovering your own personal style is something that will continue to make you look and feel your best for years to come.